The OCD Whisperer Podcast with Kristina Orlova
The OCD Whisperer Podcast explores anxiety, OCD, and mental health through unscripted, human-centered conversations and personal stories. Featuring clinicians, creatives, public figures, and everyday people, the show looks at how anxiety, fear, pressure, and identity shape our lives — and how people learn to live alongside them.
Hosted by Kristina Orlova, a licensed therapist with lived experience of OCD, the podcast centers honest conversation over polished answers. Episodes are reflective, unscripted, and grounded in real life, allowing space for nuance, curiosity, and moments that don’t always resolve neatly.
This is a podcast for anyone who has questioned themselves, felt overwhelmed, or wondered what’s happening beneath the surface of anxiety, OCD, and mental health — and what it means to be human while living with it.
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Episodes
Sunday Jul 12, 2020
Sunday Jul 12, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Let's talk about dreams and OCD!
#1 Tip to help you: Response Prevention
Once you are awake (regardless if it is middle of the night from a dream or organically in the morning) and the OCD related dream tries to hook you in, slow down for a second and get clear on what you are doing. Are you doing ANY compulsions in ANY way?
Once you get your conscious awareness to the present moment, interrupt your mental rituals! And engage in behaviors that are opposite of your OCD urge. Break it down into smaller steps if you need too for example: 10 min timer to challenge avoidance seeking behaviors or reassurance seeking behaviors or wanting to look something up on line.
Repeat these steps often! And stay with your Response Prevention Self Talk for a while if you need to especially if you are having a harder OCD flare up. Your brain is a muscle and you have to keep practicing your new skills and reinforce them!
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IG @ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
eBk: How to Stop Compulsive Rumination + 30 day journal
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California & specialize in OCD and Anxiety Disorders, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going in the meantime.
*Episodes come out out bi-weekly.
Monday Jun 29, 2020
Monday Jun 29, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Let's talk about committed action and why it is important. There are some self-evaluation questions you need to ask yourself.
Self- evaluation questions:
Am I currently living my life in a way that is truly in alignment with my values in the context of my life?
Am I engaging in a range of behaviors that are connected to my deepest wishes and longings?
What am I currently doing? (1 min and 50 sec more q's)
What kind of life do I want to live?
How do I want to show up?
What is getting in the way of me taking committed action? What is it costing me?
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IG @ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
eBk: How to Stop Compulsive Rumination + 30 day journal
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going in the meantime.
*Episodes come out out bi-weekly.
Monday Jun 15, 2020
Monday Jun 15, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Today I cover 3 things you DO NOT want to do If You Love Someone With OCD.
Do not try to think your way out of OCD! Using logic and rationale will only perpetuate the compulsive analysis cycle!
Instead remind the person it is OCD flaring up and what OCD is.
Do not provide incessant reassurance! This will give momentary relief only to reinforce the OCD cycle and more questions will come up, even anger and a more desperate attempt to have certainty that everything will be OK.
Instead lovingly and with warmth set limits of how much reassurance you will provide (we all do need reassurance sometimes).
Do not accommodate OCD! This will feed the cycle and make it last longer!
Instead create a step by step plan to reduce accommodations.
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@ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
OCD Journal and Planner: CBT based tracker
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going.
*Episodes come out out bi-weekly.
Sunday May 31, 2020
Sunday May 31, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Today I am answering some questions that got direct messaged to me on my Instagram account @ocdwhisperer.
Unintentional thought suppression question and how to have acceptance.
Comparing your OCD to Instagram posts to validate or invalidate your own experience question.
Can someone with OCD find a friend or a partner who also has OCD and can there be positive benefits?
Checking feelings for proof if the obsession is true or not or checking if feeling something and that leads to actually feeling something.
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IG @ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
OCD Journal and Planner: CBT based tracker
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going in the meantime.
*Episodes come out out bi-weekly.
Sunday May 17, 2020
Sunday May 17, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Today we are talking about Mindset work.
What are you paying attention to? Consciously direct your attention!
What meaning you assign to your anxiety experience does influence how you feel about it. (Is anxiety a threat? Did you assign meaning to it that you cannot handle it?)
What you choose to do in response to your anxiety will either feed it or break it.
Compulsively neutralizing it strengthens it.
Maybe OCD is an opportunity for growth?
Everyday is an opportunity to practice.
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IG @ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
OCD Journal and Planner: CBT based tracker
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going in the meantime.
*Episodes will be coming out bi-weekly.
Monday May 04, 2020
Monday May 04, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Today we are talking about Compulsions!
Themes of different compulsive behaviors:
Avoidance
Compulsive crying (other OCD influenced emotions)
Self reassurance (sneaking them in sometimes)
Decontamination
Checking
Magical compulsions
Perfectionistic compulsions
Counting
Tracing
Touching/ tapping
Mental compulsions (there is an episode just on this)
Protective compulsions
Body focused
Self-mutilating (cutting, burning)
Hair pulling/ skin picking (this may or may not be due to OCD, it may be due to trichotillomania mean hair pulling or excoriation-means skin picking)
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IG @ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
OCD Journal and Planner: CBT based tracker
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going.
*Episodes will be coming out bi-weekly.
Monday Apr 20, 2020
Monday Apr 20, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Today we are talking about Motivation: it is an on-going dynamic process.
Take away strategies are:
Break your ERP exercises or any goals down into small steps that you can do right NOW. Focus on the present- what can you do NOW to start?
Set limits with distractions- say no to them.
Watch for your rationalizations of all the "should's" and not doing anything and then your inner critic coming out to judge yourself and feel bad like guilt, shame, embarrassment. This cycle feeds onto itself. Catch it and tell yourself maybe I should have done x,y,z- but right NOW I will do x and focus on the here and now and start.
Reflect on even small accomplishments because then you focus on your success and that will feed your confidence and you may feel motivated to do the next ERP exercise and build on it and take action.
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OCD Journal and Planner: CBT based tracker
IG @ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going.
*Episodes will be coming out bi-weekly.
Friday Apr 03, 2020
Friday Apr 03, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Today we are covering compulsive rumination: what it is, why people rationalize why it is important to keep ruminating, and simple strategies to try today.
Strategies discussed are:
Catch yourself in the act! Increase your awareness of how much of this behavior you engage in.
Set firm boundaries with no ifs buts or anything else! Example: I will parking lot thinking about this for 24 hrs.
Talk back using strategies that foster non-engagement with the content. For example: I have thought about x for so long and have not gotten any more clear on anything. This mental processing is not yielding results and I will no longer do this especially when I am anxious and feel a sense of urgency or need.
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IG @ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
OCD Journal and Planner: CBT based tracker
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going.
*Episodes will be coming out bi-weekly.
Monday Mar 30, 2020
Monday Mar 30, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Today we will touch on the second part of OCD Subtypes. These two episodes, episode 3 and 4 are to give you an idea of the different ways OCD can present itself.
Subtypes discussed are:
Sexual Obsessions OCD
Relationship OCD
Superstitious / Magical OCD
Aggressive Obsessions OCD
Emotional Contamination OCD
Perinatal/ Postpartum OCD
Rumination OCD
Hyperawareness & Sensorimotor OCD
Real life event(s) OCD
IG @ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
OCD Journal and Planner: CBT based tracker
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going.
*Episodes will be coming out bi-weekly.
Monday Mar 23, 2020
Monday Mar 23, 2020
Learn all things OCD with the OCD Whisperer Podcast.
Today we will discuss the first half of various OCD Subtypes.
Subtypes discussed are:
Symmetry/Perfectionism OCD
Contamination OCD
Fear doing something wrong OCD
Harm OCD
Hypochondria/ health OCD
Pure “O” OCD
Scrupulosity OCD-morality, being good or evil
Just Right OCD
Need to know/ remember OCD
Pedophilia OCD
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IG @ocdwhisperer
Resources for OCD
OCD Journal and Planner: CBT based tracker
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes. Though I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in California, this does not replace therapy.
See you in the next episode!
Keep going.
*Due to the amount of information, there is a bonus episode out next week.
*Episodes will be coming out bi-weekly.